Young Women of Excellence Conference “I Choose Me”
Speaking to the parents on domestic violence in teen relationships...
Coverage of \"I Choose Me\" Seminar by: Yolanda Gates
On June 6, 2009 I was blessed to speak at the Young Women of Excellence Conference at the Memphis Cook Convention Center. This event was given by the National Coalition of 100 Black Women: Memphis Chapter. I was asked to speak on domestic violence in teen relationships, which brings me to the topic of “I Choose Me”
At the ages of 12-24, domestic violence is at an all time high!!! 35% of this age group who was surveyed admitted to being in an abusive relationship. At this speaking engagement I focused on encouraging the parents to discuss the rising rates of domestic violence to their children before dating and while dating.
The women in this crowd shocked me because they were brave enough to admit to their children that they had been abused and share their tragic experiences with the group.
I also spoke on a recent incident where singer/pop star Rhianna was physically beaten by her then boyfriend Chris Brown. The parents were all aware of this altercation, but most did not take the time to sit down with their children and let them know some important facts about this issue. The issues included allowing the abuse by staying in the relationship, going back to the abuser, and protecting the abuser.
As parents, family, and friends we should all stand up and discuss the issues with our loved ones because sometimes that loved one that you’re talking to may be a victim, survivor, or future victim.
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